Have you ever given the gift of work?
I recently spoke with someone who received a gift card, only to spend it on a toolkit. While well-intentioned, it inadvertently became a gift of extra work!
A few observations:
1. When people are asked to spend money on themselves, they often choose the practical option rather than something they truly desire.
2. A gift should be a delightful indulgence: The best gifts are items you want but wouldn't typically buy for yourself. Think of a luxurious body wash, that really expensive coffee, artisanal chocolate, or a premium workout top – things you'd love to have but hesitate to splurge on.
3. The element of surprise is also key with gifting.
Gifts should be joyous, providing those special items you might not normally spend on. They shouldn't involve the recipient picking out their own gift!
The Accidental Gift of Work
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